My Story
Foday M Kamara- Life Coach
CEO/Founder Blooming Flux Foundation
I am a certified Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) life coach.
I work with individuals who are looking to make changes in any aspect of their lives by helping them reshape their perspective and mindset about themselves to overcome their limiting beliefs.
At age 22, I lost my father, who was the breadwinner of my family. I had no clue of the direction my life was heading. I dropped out of college and became depressed and frustrated, and I started to abuse drugs and alcohol. I lost hope in life because I couldn't see a way out. I became argumentative with my mother at the time, who was trying to provide for my siblings and me.
I continued this hopeless and aimless way of living for almost three (3) years until March of 2021. I had just finished ironing my mother’s dress for church that Sunday morning, and I was scrolling through my news feed on Facebook when I came across a video from Jay Shetty titled ‘ Before You Feel The Pressure.’ This video captivated me to the extent that I watched it countless times.
The way the speaker spoke struck me, so I did some research and found out he was a former monk and a popular figure in the personal development industry. After deepening my understanding of him and the personal development industry, I stumbled upon my first personal development book, which was ‘The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind’ by Joseph Murphy. After reading this book, I had an epiphany!
I realize that I had all the power within me to create the life that I truly desire and that my life wasn’t all over.
I immediately changed the way I talk to myself, reframed the way I saw my situation, and started to carefully monitor my inner voice so that it could work for me rather than against me. From that day up to the present, my life has never been the same.
I started to live a more meaningful and purposeful life, I got off drugs, my relationship with my mother became better, and I made a commitment to myself to use whatever resources I had available to me to educate myself.
What I experienced transformed me and gave me not just clarity but also a deep sense of purpose. And it’s what inspired me to become a life coach—so I could guide others who are feeling disappointed, frustrated, and stuck, and feel that they are at a point in their life where there seems to be no hope.
Today, I help people:
Gain clarity about what they really want in life
Break free from patterns that keep them stuck.
Create simple, actionable steps toward meaningful change.
Step into the confidence and fulfillment they deserve
If any part of my story resonates with you, I’d love to connect. We can schedule a clarity call where we’ll focus entirely on you—your goals, your challenges, and your next steps forward.
You don’t have to do this alone. Sometimes, all it takes is the right support and guidance to unlock the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for.
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